One thing I’ve noticed in midlife dating is how cautious people are on both sides. Women are understandably concerned about safety and honesty, while men often feel like they’re starting from a place of distrust. That divide can make building trust slow and awkward.
For me, focusing on being upfront about what I want, whether that’s low-pressure companionship, friendship, or dating, has helped take the edge off... some. Still, it’s not easy to bridge that gap when both sides carry baggage.
How did we get to this point and how do we handle it? What’s worked for you in building healthy connections despite the divide?
